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Perfection
In Brooklyn, New York, Chush
is a school that caters to learning
disabled children. Some children remain
in Chush for their entire school career,
while others can be main streamed into
conventional schools.
At a Chush fund-raising dinner, the
father of a Chush child
delivered a speech that would never be
forgotten by all who attended.
After extolling the school and its
dedicated staff, he cried out,
"Where is the perfection in my son,
Shay?
Everything God does is done with
perfection.
But my child cannot understand things as
other children do.
My child cannot remember facts and
figures as other children do.
Where is God's perfection?
The audience was shocked by the question,
pained by the father's anguish and
stilled by the piercing query.
"I believe," the father
answered,
"that when God brings a child like
this into the world,
the perfection that he seeks is in the
way people react to this child."
He then told the following story about
his son Shay:
One afternoon, Shay and his father walked
past a park where
some boys Shay knew were playing
baseball.
Shay asked, "Do you think they will
let me play?"
Shay's father knew that his son was not
at all athletic and
that most boys would not want him on
their team.
But Shay's father understood that if his
son was chosen to play
it would give him a comfortable sense of
belonging.
Shay's father approached one of the boys
in the field and
asked if Shay could play.
The boy looked around for guidance from
his teammates.
Getting none, he took matters into his
own hands and said
"We are losing by six runs and the
game is in the eighth inning.
I guess he can be on our team and we'll
try to put him up to bat in the ninth
inning." Shay's father was ecstatic
as Shay smiled broadly.
Shay was told to put on a glove and go
out to play short center field.
In the bottom of the eighth inning,
Shay's team scored a few runs but was
still behind by three.
In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's
team scored again
and now with two outs and the bases
loaded with the potential winning run on
base. Shay was scheduled to be up.
Would the team actually let Shay bat at
this juncture
and give away their chance to win the
game?
Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat.
Everyone knew that it was all but
impossible because
Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat
properly, let alone hit with it.
However as Shay stepped up to the plate,
the pitcher moved a few steps to lob the
ball in softly
so Shay should at least be able to make
contact.
The first pitch came and Shay swung
clumsily and missed.
One of Shay's teammates came up to Shay
and together they held the bat
and faced the pitcher waiting for the
next pitch.
The pitcher again took a few steps
forward to toss the ball softly toward
Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay and his
teammate swung at the ball and together
they hit a slow ground ball to the
pitcher.
The pitcher picked up the soft grounder
and
could easily have thrown the ball to the
first baseman.
Shay would have been out and that would
have ended the game.
Instead, the pitcher took the ball and
threw it on a high arc to right field,
far beyond reach of the first baseman.
Everyone started yelling, "Shay, run
to first. Run to first."
Never in his life had Shay run to first.
He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed
and startled.
By the time he reached first base, the
right fielder had the ball.
He could have thrown the ball to the
second baseman who would tag out Shay,
who was still running.
But the right fielder understood what the
pitcher's intentions were,
so he threw the ball high and far over
the third baseman's head.
Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run
to second.
" Shay ran towards second base as
the runners ahead of him
deliriously circled the bases towards
home.
As Shay reached second base, the opposing
short stop ran to him,
turned him in the direction of third base
and shouted, "Run to third."
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both
teams ran behind him screaming,
"Shay run home."
Shay ran home, stepped on home plate and
all 18 boys lifted him on their shoulders
and made him the hero, as he had just hit
a "grand slam"
and won the game for his team.
That day," said the father softly
with tears now rolling down his face,
those 18 boys reached their level of
God's perfection.
Funny how this is so true!
Funny how simple it is for people to
trash different ways of living and
believing
and then wonder why the world is going to
hell.
Funny how people can send a thousand
'jokes' through e-mail
and they spread like wildfire, but
when one starts sending messages
regarding life choices,
people think twice about sharing.
Funny how the lewd, crude, vulgar and
obscene pass freely through cyberspace,
but public discussion of morality is too
often suppressed in school and the
workplace.
Funny how when you go to forward this
message (if you choose to forward it),
you will not send it to many on your
address list because you're not sure
what they believe, or what they will
think of you for sending it to them.
Funny how we can be more worried about
what other people think of us
than what we think of ourselves.
The paradox of our time in history is
that
we have taller buildings, but shorter
tempers;
wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints;
we spend more, but have less;
we buy more, but enjoy it less.
We have bigger houses and smaller
families;
more conveniences, but less time;
we have more degrees, but less sense;
more knowledge but less judgment;
more experts, but more problems;
more medicine, but less wellness.
We have multiplied our possessions, but
reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and
hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but
not a life;
we've added years to life, not life to
years.
We've been all the way to the moon and
back, but
have trouble crossing the street to meet
the new neighbor.
We've conquered outer space, but not
inner space;
we've cleaned up the air, but polluted
the soul;
we've split the atom, but not our
prejudice.
We have higher incomes, but lower morals;
we've become long on quantity, but short
on quality.
These are the times of tall men with
short character;
steep profits with shallow relationships.
These are the times of world
peace, but domestic warfare;
more leisure, but less fun;
more kinds o food, but less nutrition.
These are days of two incomes, but more
divorce;
of fancier houses, but broken homes.
It is a time when there is much in the
show window and nothing in the stockroom;
time when technology can bring this
letter to you, and time when you can
choose either to make a difference or
just hit Disguard it.
Keep reaching for that level of perfection.
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